Stuff n’ that

Stuff n’ that

I’m moving. Again. For those who know me, believe it, it’s happening. Again. And I’m excited about the new suburb, the close proximity to friends old and new and the new energy this will usher in. I’m excited about the de-cluttering that’s going along with it too. My...
Can anyone relate to catastrophising?

Can anyone relate to catastrophising?

Admittedly, sometimes, regardless of alllll my training and education in the human behaviour space and all the work I’ve done, I’m a bit of a “catastrophiser”. (Yes, catastrophise is a word. Using it as an adjective to describe myself may not be.) For example, “Oh, so...
NO as a valid strategy

NO as a valid strategy

I touched upon boundaries last week. There are boundaries that are pushed by others in terms of the treatment of us (which is what I focussed on last week) and then there are boundaries of a task-orientated kind (which is inadvertently allowing certain treatment of us...
How do you stop people pushing your buttons?

How do you stop people pushing your buttons?

My buttons have been severely pushed recently. I’ve been faced with new working scenarios and with that comes new personalities. And with that comes different expectations. Recently, someone spoke to me in a less then desirable manner.  I think they forgot they were...